Us: getting past you & me to build a more loving relationship

Which version of you shows up to your relationship?

The myth of the individual

How us gets lost and you and me takes over

The individualist at home

Start thinking like a team

You cannot love from above or below

Your fantasies have shattered, your real relationship can begin

Fierce intimacy, soft power

Leaving our kids a better future

Becoming whole

Epilogue: Broken light.